Girl em[Power]ment – Katy Nelson

Girl em[Power]ment – A Series of Short Essays.

Over the next few months Flancake.co will be bringing you the Girl em[Power]ment series, which consists of interviews with several working women of all ages in different stages of their career. These are women I not only find inspiring and interesting, but who I think women of all ages should know about and learn from. These women hold careers in several different industries, from creative design to politics.They’ll give us an inside look into what their job is like, how they got there, share their advice for twenty-somethings, and touch on what Girl em[Power]ment means to them.

[be sure to follow along on insta – @girlempowerment]

The next influencer is the spunky Katy Nelson, whom I’ve had the privilege of knowing through my mother for a few years now. I’ve always known Katy was with it, and when I came to college I was able to figure this out even more. She’s helped to guide me through several challenges throughout my college career and help me grow along the way. She’s such a smart and giving woman in way more than one way, so I’m thrilled to share her profile.

Introducing Katy Nelson, with the University of Arkansas. 

Q: What is your current job title, and can you please briefly explain your career path?
A: Assistant Vice Chancellor for Development at the University of Arkansas – After I graduated from college in 1987, I moved to Washington, DC because there were several alumni who also lived there. I held several administrative jobs and decided I should get a graduate degree because the job market was so competitive. I really wasn’t that good at administrative work and I didn’t enjoy it.  I received a graduate assistantship and moved back to Fayetteville in 1990  to get a Master’s Degree in Communication. While in graduate school, I taught two freshman level communication courses and tutored athletes. I discovered there are staff careers in higher education and decided to move to Austin, Texas in 1993 (again because I had several friends who lived there). I also tutored athletes until I landed a job as an Academic Advisor in the College of Natural Sciences.  I joined the Academic Counselor’s Association and volunteered to be on the planning committee for our annual conference. I got to know my colleagues and built my professional network.

After a few years in this role, I became the Coordinator of High School Outreach and Recruiting for the McCombs School of Business at UT. I met with prospective students, parents, hosted admissions sessions, and traveled to cities throughout Texas. We had an emphasis on diversity, and I had to raise money for our programs. This is how I got my introduction to fundraising. The Dean of McCombs reorganized the Development Office and I was hired as the Director of Corporate Relations. I was in this role for eight years before I moved back to Arkansas in 2007 to be the Senior Director of Development and External Relations for the Sam M. Walton College of Business. In 2013 I was promoted to Assistant Vice Chancellor. I manage the fundraising efforts of the colleges and Corporate and Foundation Relations. I also provide strategic oversight of interdisciplinary, strategic objectives, and manage relationships with key donors.

Q: Where did you go to school and what was your major?
A: University of Arkansas, B.A. and M.A. in Communication

Q: How do you deal with negativity towards women in the work place [if at all]?
A: I have been fortunate in that I really have not experienced negativity because I am female. One reason could be that there are generally more women in student service and development roles in higher education than men. I have also had many colleagues who are“strong”, competent women who have been recognized for their accomplishments.

Q: Who are your role models or mentors, and why?
A: Char Dison was one of my mentors at UT Austin. She taught me two very valuable lessons: 1) pick your battles; 2) never burn your bridges. The first one is important because there are always going to be processes, procedures, and people who bother you in the workplace and you simply can’t fight them all. You have to let the little annoyances go and focus on what you really believe in and how you can make a difference. The second one is important because you may be opposed to one person on any given day but have to work with them in a team the next. You also never know who your boss might be one day. I know of colleagues who acted unprofessionally toward another person, and that person became their boss later. Needless to say, they were fired shortly thereafter.

Q: Have you ever felt unsure of yourself or felt that you weren’t “enough”, and how did you overcome that?
A: There have been several occasions when I have been working on a special project and I wasn’t sure how to approach it. Sometimes it was due to lack of confidence in my ability, other times the task seemed overwhelming and daunting. I like to talk through issues, challenges, etc. with others to get their ideas for solutions. Others can offer a fresh perspective.

Q: What are other things you do [hobbies, projects, interest] that you feel passionate about?
A: I like to ride on the Razorback Greenway, hike, and do yoga. I also like going to classes at Clubhaus gym. I am a social person and the group classes are a good fit for me.

Q: What career and/or life advice would you give to your twenty-year-old self?
A: Your first job out of college does not have to be your career job. If I had not had the administrative positions in DC, I may not have gone back to graduate school. Graduate school led me to a career in higher education. I think finding the right career can involve trial and error. Try something and if you don’t like it, move on. Be respectful and professional to everyone, even if they drive you crazy and you don’t like them.

Q: What does Girl em[Power]ment mean to you?
A: Girls can be confident leaders.

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graphic by the talented Courtney Ulrich

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Girl em[Power]ment – Kelly Stuckey

Girl em[Power]ment – A Series of Short Essays.

Over the next few months Flancake.co will be bringing you the Girl em[Power]ment series, which consists of interviews with several working women of all ages in different stages of their career. These are women I not only find inspiring and interesting, but who I think women of all ages should know about and learn from. These women hold careers in several different industries, from creative design to politics. They’ll give us an inside look into what their job is like, how they got there, share their advice for twenty-somethings, and touch on what Girl em[Power]ment means to them.

[be sure to follow along on insta – @girlempowerment]

Our next influencer is someone I’m so excited to share with you all, as she was one of the inspirations for the entire Girl em[Power]ment series!! I have known Kelly Stuckey for about four years now, when I first met her via instagram stalking and just HAD to get her to help my hair. She has a heart of gold, she is a giving soul like none I’ve ever seen, and her strong faith  inspires those around her, myself included. Oh, and she’s a small business owner + wife + puppy mom, to all of which she excels tremendously. Those around her feel her radiance on a daily basis, which is why I’m so glad she is today’s influencer.

Introducing Kelly Stuckey, owner of Crown Beauty Bar 
Insta – @hellokellystuckey + @crownbeautybar
Website – CrownBeautyBar + SheSitsPretty

Q: What is your current job title, and can you please briefly explain your career path?
A: My current title is Senior Hairstylist, makeup artist and co-owner of Crown Beauty Bar with my husband, Zac Stuckey.  I am also a certified educator for Davines Hair Color and She by Socap Hair Extensions. My career path started at a young age of 14 working for my Dad’s photography studio and has taken so many turns from salon receptionist to Interior Designer to PepsiCo modular planner to CitiScapes advertising sales to restaurant hostess while attending beauty school and now a small business owner.  It’s incredible and encouraging to see the way it has all come together in my life, and how each step paved the way for the next.  Every place I worked I met people who played into my next role and even met my husband along the way!

Q: Where did you go to school and what was your major?
A: I first attended the University of Arkansas Fort Smith and received an Associates of Art.  Then I transferred to the University of Arkansas and graduated with a Bachelors of Interior Design.  Three years later I attended Paul Mitchell The School Arkansas for my Cosmetology License.

Q: How do you deal with negativity towards women in the work place [if at all]?
A: Thankfully I work in a female dominant environment where we get along and lift each other up!  The most negativity I ever deal with is when a client doesn’t like things about their own hair and or looks.  I love enhancing each woman’s individual beauty and teaching them ways to carry that home.  I want to shatter any negative images they have about themselves.

Q: Who are your role models or mentors, and why?
A: My first impactful role model is my Mother, Karen.  She was and still is always there for me.  I know stories of how she worked hard and did what she could to provide and take care of me after my parents split at a young age.  She always made me feel beautiful and supported especially during times when I struggled with my weight, career, or life choices. 

I’ve also been blessed with a Spiritual mentor, Kristen Davis, pastor at Life Connection Church in Rogers, AR. She came along at the perfect time in my life, helped me see the power of Jesus’ love and grace, and was instrumental in helping me learn more about how to study the Bible.

I would say my biggest mentor is my husband, Zac. He is a strong, steady constant in my life and has a true servant heart.  He pushes me to be better and is always incredibly supportive.  It’s incredibly cheesy to say, but he does make me feel like anything is possible so long as we do it together; he gives me wings! I love owning a business with him, doing life, and can’t wait to become a parent with him next April!!!

Q: Have you ever felt unsure of yourself or felt that you weren’t “enough”, and how did you overcome that?
A: Oh yes, a lot when I was younger. In fact, I still struggle with this insecurity from time to time. I didn’t know my true identity until I really let God into my life and got serious about pursuing a relationship with Jesus at age 28. Anytime I allow the lies of this world to fill my mind, I stumble into insecurity. I remind myself the truth is I was made by God and for his purposes… before I understood that, nothing made sense.  Now I read and reflect on what his Word says about me for affirmation on who I am.

Q: Is there anyone you think that is making a difference in women empowerment that you think we should all know about?
A: It’s amazing to live in a community with so many female small business owners and creatives in my local community!  Here’s a few businesses to check out: Kirsten Blowers owner of Riffraff, Amy Hannon of EunaMae’s, Valere Gregory of Valere Rene Handbags, Becca Brisiel of Maude Boutique, Chelsea Hermez of Pigmint. Another woman shaking things up in California is Shanna Noel, creator of Illustrated Faith, helping creative women express themselves and learn more about God’s Word through a journaling bible.

Q: What do you do in your free time to relax?
A: Walk my dogs, jeep rides with my husband, read, doodle in my journaling bible, zone out on social media.

Q: What career and/or life advice would you give to your twenty-year-old self?
A: Be patient, work hard, do not expect anything, and be thankful for every opportunity to learn. We all graduate and think “okay, I made it.. now where is my awesome job and salary?” It’s just not that easy all the time!  I truly believe in hard, honest work and being a self-starter.  The other thing is: your 20’s are just awkward!  I had so much fun in my 20’s, but so much confusing unknown too.  It’s not that I have it all figured out in my 30’s now, but I am more secure in myself and truly trust God has plans for me.

Q: What does Girl em[Power]ment mean to you?
A: Girl em[Power]ment means looking past the stereotypes created by the world and other people to see who I am and what God created me to be.  I have been given gifts and talents to use to help others and it’s up to me to make that happen with every opportunity that I am presented with! I love working in an industry where I can make women feel beautiful and teach them tricks they can use at home to create their look on a daily basis.  I also want to empower my employees to be self-starters, find the lesson in every situation, and take ownership of the career and life they have a heart for.  You can’t sit and wait for everything to fall into your lap.  You gotta hustle while keeping your eyes and ears open.

All I can add is that this is so good. As I myself will soon be graduating, it is easy to just assume that I’m a graduate so I should be able to easily find that awesome job and even more-awesome paycheck. But as Kelly said, “you gotta hustle while keeping your eyes and ears open.”
Stay tuned for next week’s influencer–these ladies just keep rocking it!
Xo, Flancake

Girl em[Power]ment – Linda Denton

Girl em[Power]ment – A Series of Short Essays.

Over the next few months Flancake.co will be bringing you the Girl em[Power]ment series, which consists of interviews with several working women of all ages in different stages of their career. These are women I not only find inspiring and interesting, but who I think women of all ages should know about and learn from. These women hold careers in several different industries, from creative design to politics.They’ll give us an inside look into what their job is like, how they got there, share their advice for twenty-somethings, and touch on what Girl em[Power]ment means to them.

[be sure to follow along on insta – @girlempowerment]

Our next influencer is Linda Denton, an amazing women I’ve known for as long as I can remember from my hometown. She’s a small business owner but has been in several different fields, so she’s knows a thing or two about success.

Introducing Linda Denton, of Pony Express Printing & Supplies

Q: What is your current job title, and can you please briefly explain your career path?
A: I am the owner and operator of Pony Express Printing & Supplies in Mena, AR. This spring will be my 20th anniversary and I feel blessed to have a business I enjoy and continually get to meet new people- some have watched my family grow and been there for each milestone.

Q: Where did you go to school and what was your major?
A: My background is in science. I graduated from Texas A&M University in College Station, TX in 1991 with a B.S. in Biomedical Science. Seems like a stretch doesn’t it? I love science and attended college with the desire to become a veterinarian. After working in some ‘kill’ clinics and with numerous heart-breaking cases I declared NOT to continue with that career goal. I enjoyed the coursework though and remained in a pre-medical science background. This led to a lot of research work which in turn helped me land a job with Johnson Space Center in Houston, TX. I loved it! I also found myself in charge of typing proposals, research presentations, and proposals [at that time it was a hobby- typing/formatting/design].

Q: How do you deal with negativity towards women in the work place [if at all]?
A: My focus is on doing the best job I can. There are occasions where I think the situation lends better for male-to-male interaction and truthfully it raises my blood pressure but I am not sure I want to change that. I have to focus on me: be plain-spoken, have good intentions, state the nature of my concern, and prove that I am capable of providing or performing the task[s] asked of me. An “I CAN” attitude goes a long way.

Q: Who are three of your mentors or role models, and why?
A: My father. He taught me I can do anything I set my mind on and not to sell myself short. Jean ‘Tex’ Narlo, my friends mother, who had a Merle Norman store in Tyler, TX. She was successful as an entrepreneur but was driven to keep exploring her passions and business opportunities [some a success and some just another lesson]. My final mentor is ever evolving. There have been a number of women that I have admired and consider worthy of mentioning mostly because they seem to effortlessly balance motherhood/career/household/and Christian role model.

Q: What are other things you do [hobbies, projects, interest] that you feel passionate about?
A: I love to complete crafting projects. The DIY channel is my downfall and addiction. To make or build something [my headboard for example] lets me relieve stress, work through emotions and end up with a project I can take pride in completing.

Q: Is there anyone you think that is making a difference in women empowerment that you think we should all know about?
A: At my age, I am thankful for the grey haired ladies who spent their years being a mother and being happy with that title. There is job that we females take on when we have children. My most important position is that of Mother. I want to instill love, family and hard-work in my children and that ‘home’ is a cherished institution. My hat is off to all women and I realize we each have our own goals, dreams, and desires.

Q: What do you do in your free time to relax?
A: I love being outside and enjoying walks, fishing, or just playing with my youngest child.

Q: What career and/or life advice would you give to your twenty-year-old self?
A: Listen more, talk less. Give more and recognize your blessings and say ‘thank you’.

Q: What does Girl em[Power]ment mean to you?
A: Girl em[Power]ment means feeling comfortable with who you are, striving for more, and taking on challenges that you believe in – make a difference.

I think we could all take Linda’s advice to give more, recognize our blessings and say ‘thank you’. I know I can!

Stay tuned for our next influencer–be sure to follow along on insta @girlempowerment.
Xo, Flancake

[graphic in collaboration with Courtney Ulrich of Alligator Food Design]

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Girl em[Power]ment – Nina Copeland

Girl em[Power]ment – A Series of Short Essays.

Over the next few months Flancake.co will be bringing you the Girl em[Power]ment series, which consists of interviews with several working women of all ages in different stages of their career. These are women I not only find inspiring and interesting, but who I think women of all ages should know about and learn from. These women hold careers in several different industries, from creative design to politics. They’ll give us an inside look into what their job is like, how they got there, share their advice for twenty-somethings, and touch on what Girl em[Power]ment means to them.

[be sure to follow along on insta – @girlempowerment]

Our next influencer is Nina Copeland, who I’ve gotten to know over the years at Johnson Dermatology. She not only gives great skin advice and has a must-read blog, but is a working mom who’s also got killer style. Nina always has a positive energy about her, and never fails to make me feel at home when visiting her. Keep reading for her [amazing] answers and advice for twenty-somethings.

Introducing, Nina Copeland, of The Skinny On Skin + Johnson Dermatology
Blog – TheSkinnyOnSkin

Q: What is your current job title, and can you please briefly explain your career path?
A: I’m a dermatology nurse practitioner at Johnson Dermatology. I do surgical, cosmetic and general dermatology. I started as a certified nursing assistant at age 16. I worked in hospitals eventually becoming an RN and then a Nurse Practitioner. I have experience in OB/GYN, outpatient surgery, forensic nursing, ICU and the ER. Finally, I’m at my home in dermatology.

Q: Where did you go to school and what was your major?
A: I went to the U of A in Fayetteville where I recieved my Bachelors in the Science of Nursing. I attended UCA in Conway where I earned my Master in the Science of Nursing. I am certified through the American Academy of Nurse Practitioners as a Family Nurse Practitioner.

Q: How do you deal with negativity towards women in the work place [if at all]?
A: I currently work in an office with over 30 women and one man so I don’t encounter this often. But I approach negativity with positivity. I am proud of myself and where I’ve come in my career. While I was pregnant I was often asked if I was going to stay home when the baby arrived. I always responded, “no way! I love my job! I’m going to teach my girls how to juggle it all by example.”

Q: Have you ever felt unsure of yourself or felt that you weren’t “enough”, and how did you overcome that?
A: Everytime I try something new! It’s life and that unknown, unsure feeling is what makes you work hard, learn new things and become a little stronger, smarter and wiser. I definetely use that insecure feeling as fuel.

Q: Who are your role models or mentors that you look up to?
A: My first female role model is my Mom. She came from nothing, put herself through college and became an electrical engineer. She has worked for Texas Instruments, NASA, mulitple colleges and now is a teacher. She worked while my Dad stayed home raising us, now that’s a boss lady! Second is my collaborating physician Dr. Sandy Johnson, she always has a positive attitude. She is my constant reminder of how to be better all around. She is a business woman, a doctor, a wife, a mom and happy. Lastly, Brittney Spears, because if she can get through 2007 I feel I can do the impossible no matter how bad a hair day I have (only sort of kidding, kind of serious).

Q: What are other things you do [hobbies, projects, interest] that you feel passionate about?
A: I have a 5 month old and a 2 year old so right now my passions include potty training and breastfeeding. My interest include getting a shower and my teeth brushed before going to work. And sleep is a real project. Although, I do remember a time when traveling, volunteer work, road biking, barre, wine with friends and running with my husband were all on my favorite to-do list.

Q: Is there anyone you think that is making a difference in women empowerment that you think we should all know about?
A: I think women empowerment is really blossoming in Fort Smith. Look around at all the local women starting their own businesses. Hazels Haven, Suite One, Indie, Roots Salon, Belle Starr Antiques, Baby Chic and Kens & Co. are just a few of my favorite Fort Smith girls that own their successful businesses. Know who your local women business leaders are and support them, that’s what women empowerment is all about!

Q: What do you do in your free time to relax?
A: I love the lake, the pool and massages. I like to meditate. If I get a break I like to just sit outside and think while sipping a cup of vanilla chai tea latte.

Q: What career and/or life advice would you give to your twenty-year-old self?
A: Your actions will follow you and have consequences. Make decisions based on the consequences. Think about where a job will take you not just what that job is. Your twenties are just the beginning and even though it feels like it takes “forever” to get through college or move up in a position or get married or whatever I promise it is just a very brief moment in your life. Time keeps getting shorter and days will seem like hours before you know it!

Q: What does Girl em[Power]ment mean to you?
A: Owning it. By that I mean be confident and own your brand, what you represent. Be humble. Share what you are good at with other women and encourage them to be amazing too. If we support each other the sky is the limit. Have you heard the saying the woman is the neck that turns the head in a family? The truth is women are the brain! We can turn the head and shake the hips simultaneously, heck we run it all!

Stay tuned for Wednesday’s influencer, and I hope you enjoyed hearing from Nina!
Xo, Flancake

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[graphic in collaboration with Courtney Ulrich of Alligator Food Design]

Girl em[Power]ment – Amanda Shapin

Girl em[Power]ment – A Series of Short Essays.

Over the next few months Flancake.co will be bringing you the Girl em[Power]ment series, which consists of interviews with several working women of all ages in different stages of their career. These are women I not only find inspiring and interesting, but who I think women of all ages should know about and learn from. These women hold careers in several different industries, from creative design to politics. They’ll give us an inside look into what their job is like, how they got there, share their advice for twenty-somethings, and touch on what Girl em[Power]ment means to them.

Our next influencer is Amanda Shapin, whom I was able to meet through my internship this summer. The other interns and  I were able to help her with a few projects during our internships and got to know her. She so graciously helped and reviewed a project I had during the job, and I was also able to learn about the healthy lifestyle she pursues – all while balancing a demanding career. I’m so excited for you all to read Amanda’s advice, as it shows that you really can balance work and play, and that we can all rise to the top in our own way.

Introducing Amanda Shapin, of Seventeen Magazine + Shapin’ Up

Blog- Shapinup.com
Insta- @shapinup

Q: What is your current job title, and can you please briefly explain your career path?
A: I’m the Senior Manager of Integrated Marketing at Seventeen. During college I had a number of Editorial internships [InStyle and Self to name two] and after graduating and moving to NYC I landed a job in the marketing department at Lucky Magazine. I spent two years at Lucky and then made a change, trying my hand in television. I did consumer marketing at Bravo and at IFC for a few years before about a year ago, returning to the magazine world at Seventeen.

Q: Where did you go to school and what was your major?
A: I went to the University of Michigan [go blue!] and majored in psychology and communications. 

Q: How do you deal with negativity towards women in the work place [if at all]?
A: Fortunately, I have not had much of an issue with negativity towards women in the workplace. The industries I’ve worked in are very female-dominated so in my career thus far I’ve been surrounded by very strong and successful women. 

Q: Have you ever felt unsure of yourself or felt that you weren’t “enough”, and how did you overcome that?
A: Absolutely….like all the time. It’s easy to compare yourself to others and think that you don’t stack up. This is especially true with social media, everyone around you seems like they are living a perfect life while you may feel like you are struggling. I try to remind myself that people are projecting their best selves via social and you have no idea what is happening behind the scenes.

In terms of work, there is something known as the “imposter syndrome”, that despite actually being quite competent, you feel like a fraud and that you don’t deserve the success you’ve achieved. I used to think like this a lot, questioning am I any good at what I do? Is everyone around me more competent and better at their job? I had a conversation about this with some of my girlfriends [who are all very successful!] and was relieved to find out that I wasn’t the only one feeling this way. This was a couple of years ago, and since learning that this is a common feeling, I have risen above it, reminding myself that I am competent, I am smart, and I am a valuable employee.

Q: What are other things you do [hobbies, projects, interest] that you feel passionate about?
A: I think it is super important to find things outside of work that you are passionate about. If you are 100% passionate about your job, that is great, but it’s also key to have interests outside of your office.

I’m passionate about fitness and healthy living. This side passion has turned into a mini career, I teach cycling classes in the morning before work and I run the blog ShapinUp.com. It makes for a hectic and exhausting schedule trying to balance my job, teaching and blogging, but I love it and it makes the lack of sleep worth it.

Q: Is there anyone you think that is making a difference in women empowerment that you think we should all know about?
A: Two women that I think are making a difference are Sheryl Sandberg and Mindy Kaling. If you haven’t read it yet, get your hands on a Lean In. While not everything will apply to you and your career path, every woman can take away something important. It teaches you to make moves in your career, sit at the table, have your voice heard and achieve your goals.

And Mindy Kaling, well I just love her. She’s a perfect example of working hard to get where you want to be. She had big dreams that she went after. She’s a role model for confidence and not backing down. I loved her first book and Why Not Me is next on my list.

Q: What do you do in your free time to relax?
A: When relaxing, you’ll either find me on a walk with my pup Ollie, out for a run in Central Park, testing out a new recipe or catching up on embarrassing TV shows like The Bachelor or anything on Bravo.

Q: What career and/or life advice would you give to your twenty-year-old self?
A: I would tell my 20 year old self to chill out. My senior year of college I was freaking out about finding a job. In magazines, you can’t find a job in advance, something has to be open and you have to be there, ready to start, so worrying in January was getting me nowhere, finding a job would have to wait until graduation. Of course I encourage everyone to start making connections early, but make them about genuinely meeting new people and exploring career paths, less so about landing a job right off the bat.

And along with that, I wish I had taken some time after graduating before immediately moving to NYC. I was so focused on getting to the city; I feared that if I took any time off after graduating, all the good jobs would be taken. I moved to NYC about a week after graduating and took the first job I was offered. It had nothing to do with my desired career path and I was miserable, I quit less than two months later. Looking back, I wish I had given myself a couple of months to travel and explore before moving to the city. I also wish I wasn’t so freaked out about getting a job that I was willing to take any job. While I don’t suggest being super picky when searching for your first job [I mean we have to pay the bills and eat after all!], I don’t recommend jumping into something due to fear. Think carefully about the job you want and how it will help your future. And don’t freak out, something will work out!

Q: What does Girl em[Power]ment mean to you?
A: Girl em[Power]ment to me is standing strong, believing in yourself, knowing you are enough, and also helping out your fellow girl! There’s enough success for all of us, don’t feel like you have to outdo your competition, we can all rise to the top in our own way.

Hopefully we can all follow Amanda’s advice to make genuine connections, find things outside of work that you’re passionate about, and also believe in yourself – as it’s something we probably all struggle with in some way. Keep following along to hear from our next Girl em[Power]ment series influencer!
Xo, Flancake

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Girl em[Power]ment – Laney Kay

Girl em[Power]ment – A Series of Short Essays.

Over the next few months Flancake.co will be bringing you the Girl em[Power]ment series, which consists of interviews with several working women of all ages in different stages of their career. These are women I not only find inspiring and interesting, but who I think women of all ages should know about and learn from. These women hold careers in several different industries, from creative design to politics. They’ll give us an inside look into what their job is like, how they got there, share their advice for twenty-somethings, and touch on what Girl em[Power]ment means to them.

Our next influencer is Laney Kay, whom I was fortunate enough to meet this summer through my internship. She was one of my supervisors, and is relatively new to the work place having graduated last year. During my time spent with Laney, I could easily tell that she was not only driven and focused, but always looking out for the welfare of everyone who she worked with, and of course so kind. Keep reading for her insights into what it’s like to be a twenty-something in the workplace at a high profile magazine brand.

Introducing Laney Kay, of Seventeen Magazine
Insta – @laneykay
LinkedIn – Laney Kay

Q: What is your current job title, and can you please briefly explain your career path?
A: Advertising Sales Assistant at Seventeen, Hearst Magazines; I graduated college in May 2014 and started at Seventeen in September 2014 after spending the summer interning at a PR firm and deciding that PR wasn’t for me. I didn’t do many internships, which I definitely regret, but somehow was lucky enough to land the job at Seventeen! I heard about Hearst from a family friend and after extensively researching the company, I was determined to work here. I went in for an informational interview with HR and waited several weeks to hear back [the worst], when finally a position at Seventeen opened up and I knew that this job was for me. I was ecstatic when I got the offer! I have been here for a year now and couldn’t be happier. It’s a great work environment and I love the people I work with, which is definitely important.

Q: Where did you go to school and what was your major?
A: University of Arizona – Communications Major, Business Minor.

Q: How do you deal with negativity towards women in the work place [if at all]?
A: Honestly, I haven’t really heard of much negativity towards women in the work place recently, but if there is any negativity still going on in today’s world, it is SO untrue. I work at a corporation that is majority women and I see plenty of powerful and inspiring women on a daily basis. Anyone who still has negative feelings towards this subject [which is so old school] should spend a day in the Hearst Tower and they would walk out with a different mindset after seeing how many talented and powerful women work here.

Q: Have you ever felt unsure of yourself or felt that you weren’t “enough”, and how did you overcome that?
A: During the job search process, there were several times that I felt unsure of myself… If I didn’t hear back from a company or if I heard back saying I didn’t get the position, it was obviously a little discouraging and made me feel that I wasn’t good enough for these positions [I’m sure everyone feels this during the process, but it’s important to stay positive!!]. Everyone always said things happen for a reason and I didn’t really believe in that statement until I got the job offer for Seventeen. I had been on a couple interviews prior to Seventeen and was upset that I didn’t get the job, but if I had gotten those other offers, I wouldn’t have ended up here! To overcome the rejection from other companies, it was important to stay encouraged and keep applying at other places. If I didn’t get an offer, I always told myself it wasn’t meant to be.   

Q: What are other things you do [hobbies, projects, interest] that you feel passionate about?
A: I don’t know if these are classified as hobbies, but I enjoy eating [I guess I would consider myself a little bit of a foodie], I like to shop, I enjoy traveling and wish I could travel more often, I love to dance, but don’t remember the last time I had the chance to. A few of my interests include fashion, beauty, pop culture/entertainment, and social media. A little project that I’ve been trying to work on alongside of work is closet organizing. I know how weird this sounds and people wonder how someone could enjoy organizing closets, but I am SUCH a neat freak and my friends have always been fascinated at how crazily perfect my closet is that I’ve found an interest in organizing for other people. I’ve done a few of my friend’s closets for fun on the side, but it hasn’t gone much further than that. I’ve heard of people being “professional closet organizers” that are successful and have a big clientele, but this little experiment may stay a project and not a career unfortunately.

Q: Is there anyone you think that is making a difference in women empowerment that you think we should all know about?
A: Oprah, Beyonce, Jessica Alba, Anna Wintour… just to name a few. I know these are the most cliché people to mention, but all of these women truly show how powerful women can be!!

Q: What do you do in your free time to relax?
A: When I get home from a long day at work, all I want to do is sit on the couch and watch TV [I know how lazy that sounds, but it’s the best after a long work day, especially when Sex and the City is on]. Otherwise, on the weekends I like to hang out with my friends, go out to eat, take walks, and do a little shopping if I allow myself to! I also go to my hometown in Maryland quite often to visit my family, they’re the best!

Q: What career and/or life advice would you give to your twenty-year-old self?
A: I’m only 23, so I’m sure if I was asked this question in a few years I would have a totally different answer, but in regards to career advice, I would have told my 20 year old self to do more internships! I never realized how important they were until I started applying for jobs and realizing that I didn’t have much relevant experience for the positions I was applying to. I was lucky enough to get an offer from an amazing company, but the job application process probably would have been much easier for me if I had internships to showcase on my resume. Also, I would have told myself to network more, this is super important in today’s corporate world because you never know how helpful someone could be in the future! However, I’m continuing to tell myself not to be in a rush to grow up and enjoy the present rather than worry about the future.

I hope you enjoyed perspective from a twenty-something – keep following to see the next influencer, and follow along on insta – @girlempowerment

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Xo, Flancake